A man is moved by a sermon that preaches the truth of Christ and is compelled to go to the altar and surrender his life. Another man attends a weekend event where he is led into the woods and encounters Christ through the testimonies of other men.

The common denominator in any kingdom-focused ministry is Christ. He is the beginning and the end, the whole reason and purpose for everything we do.

At times we can be skeptical of that which is unfamiliar to us, and not without just cause. We are told to test and approve what is good and pleasing to the Lord. A biblical church is designed with proper oversight and protection for the flock, and that shouldn't necessarily stop at the doors of the church.

With that said, we don't have to throw out the baby with the bath water in regard to parachurch ministries. Below are some thoughts on where rifts may occur, and ways that we can work alongside each other to further the kingdom.

• Theological Differences: Some rifts may arise from theological differences or variations in how ministries interpret and prioritize certain aspects of doctrine or practice. It's essential for open communication and understanding to bridge such gaps.
• Overlap of Ministries: Conflicts might emerge when there's perceived overlap in the ministries provided by the church and parachurch organizations. Clarifying roles, missions, and objectives can help prevent misunderstandings.
• Resource Allocation: Limited resources, including time, finances, and manpower, can sometimes lead to tension. Churches and parachurch ministries may compete for the same resources, and discussions about effective allocation are crucial.
• Autonomy and Authority: Churches might express concerns about ceding authority or autonomy to parachurch organizations. Clear communication and mutual respect for each other's roles can help address these concerns.
• Competition for Attention: Pastors may feel concerned if parachurch ministries are drawing more attention from congregants, potentially diverting focus from the core activities of the church.

Many churches have learned to collaborate effectively with parachurch ministries and recognize the benefits of working together:

• Specialized Ministries: Parachurch ministries often specialize in certain areas, such as men's discipleship, where they can provide focused and specialized resources to complement the broader mission of the church.
• Support and Resources: Churches can benefit from the resources, tools, and expertise that parachurch ministries offer in areas like leadership training, outreach, or specific discipleship programs.
• Networking: Collaboration between churches and parachurch organizations can lead to valuable networking opportunities, enabling the sharing of experiences, ideas, and best practices.
• Community Impact: Combined efforts can enhance the community impact of both churches and parachurch ministries, reaching a broader audience and addressing diverse needs.

While there can be legitimate concerns and we must be diligent in addressing those, it's hard to deny the life-change many men are experiencing by encountering Christ through parachurch ministries.

Oftentimes these experiences simply awaken what has been faithfully planted in them in their home churches. Other times, men are seeking elsewhere because they've not found purpose and life while sitting in the pews.

If it's the latter, maybe we need to take a hard look at ourselves to consider why men aren't thriving in the system we've designed. If it's the former, let's recognize the value being brought to discipleship and embrace our partners in mission. In all things, may we praise God for the harvest and the role we get to play in it.

RESOURCES AND MINISTRIES TO INCORPORATE IN YOUR MINISTRY TO MEN

*This list is in no particular order and certainly not comprehensive. As always, you are encouraged to evaluate what would best provide value for the men of your church to help them take the right next step in their spiritual journey.

Fight Club

Designed for men who want more out of life, family, themselves, and relationships.

4MUS

Inspiring men's hearts through adventure, brotherhood, faith, and justice.

Edge Venture

Helping men understand and accept who Jesus has called them to be by identifying and facing their brokenness and receiving healing.

Dad Camp

Building stronger fathers who build stronger families.

BetterMan

Calling men back to God's good and timeless design for men.

Men's Life Bloomington

Supporting men in their walk with Christ, we come together to discuss the issues and problems that are common to men. To support each other, to pray for one another, and to glorify God.

Wild at Heart

The path to restoring the heart of a man.

Man Alive

Discover God's plan for harnessing that raw, restless energy you feel to propel you toward the life you were meant to live.