Our current concepts of "men's ministry" often fall frustratingly short of what we sense in our hearts that we really need.

How many pancakes do we have to feed a man before he's transformed!?

Transformational growth requires more than just superficial experiences; it demands intentional, authentic engagement that resonates with the core of a man's spiritual journey.

Time and again we return to the same old methods that we know because they're comfortable for us. We can check the box of men's ministry by offering monthly breakfasts, a weekly study, and an annual retreat, yet deep down we know there's something missing.

This isn't it.

On the flip side of the pancake breakfasts, we can sometimes overcorrect. Frustrated by the inadequacy of our current constructs, we might find ourselves chasing after the latest fad or the programs that promise quick results. In our pursuit of transformation, we might unintentionally exchange one superficial approach for another.

This isn't it, either.

It can be tempting to just give up. Throw in the towel. Conclude that "men's ministry" simply doesn't work.

But what do we do with that nagging feeling that something isn't right? That there is a deeper need we are longing for as men which brings us back to the pancakes or sets us off once again looking for solutions?

What we long for as men is intentional, genuine, connection.  We need to be known. To be seen. To be heard. To be REAL.

True transformation comes from a relational approach that values depth over speed and authenticity over trends.

If we can submit ourselves to a journey that seeks to break free from the ruts, while respecting the fact that it will take time, intentionality, and commitment, we might just find ourselves on a path towards a vibrant ministry to men.

2023 ANNUAL CHURCH SURVEY

Results are still being analyzed for distribution, but here are just a few comments that pastors and leaders shared about their Area Director.

"I can't speak highly enough of Nate. He's hardworking, bright, and personable. But, most importantly, he has a deep love for and walk with Jesus. He desires to know God intellectually and experientially. He's a spiritual explorer, not a travel agent, and he leads by example."

"Nate is fantastic to work with regarding men's discipleship, and also a wonderful friend. He truly cares about others, listens well, and is willing to share his personal testimony to help others. Something that is rare in our world today."

"A true brother and cares beyond the resources he offers! Nate has been fabulous to work with."

Thank you to everyone who took the time to participate in our survey, and for the kind words! It is my pleasure and joy to serve so many wonderful leaders!